I received 6 e-mail messages a couple of days ago from a friend that I haven’t spoke to for a long time. At first I thought it was some forwarded junks, since it all began in the subject with the 3 magical letters and a colon (Fwd: ). Giving her some benefit of doubt, I decided to open up one of them and check out the mail’s content.

To my big surprise smiley , the mail turned out to be forwarded extracts of her e-mail conversation with other people. In all 6 of it, contains steamy conversation between this long lost friend of mine and the men she casually sleeps and other encounters of such kind. These conversations took place between the year 2000 and 2001 and was forwarded (I assume) to the list of people in her e-mail account address book (that’s how I get a copy of it, I reckon).

Don’t think all these forwarding were actually made by my friend. I reckon someone close to her (jealous ex-bf or someone who really hate her) jacked into her Hotmail mailbox and forwarded out such mails as an attempt to humiliate her in front of the people listed in the address book.

I wish I could call her up and find out what’s going on, but alas, we lost phone contact already as she changed her number. The last time we met was in Bangsar when I had a small reunion gathering with the old classmates of BB (she was then the girlfriend of an old classmate, in which they broke up shortly after). I knew her back in 2001 (or late 2000) while working on an event for my company in the centrestage of Suria KLCC.

What can I conclude here? Besides the tremendous amount of spam you get from free webmail services like Hotmail and Yahoo, it’s still a good idea to avoid using a free webmail service. Like from this example, we learn that the flexibility of keeping our old mails in the (there’s only a tiny amount of storage space on the server anyway) server and accessible from everywhere is not without its cons.

Someone who knows your password (jealous ex-partners and spouse or people you thought you can really trust) can just go in and create helluva havoc like the above by going thru your old saved messages and sent messages and distributing it easily to your readily-available list of friends with a few easy clicks.

Others might just be happy to sniff thru your mails every now and then passively (so you might as well change password now before your sniffer changes it!).

Oh yeah, for those of you still using your free webmail account as correspondance in your resume/CV/ when applying for jobs (especially tech jobs), I suggest you go get yourself a real ISP e-mail account instead. One which is referring you with your real name instead of i_am_handsome143@hotmail.com as such trivial e-mail address doesn’t seem professional and doesn’t reflect that you’re indeed serious about getting a job smiley