There are 55 minutes left till the end of Valentine’s Day this year as I start blogging this…
I’ve stayed home the whole day. Kinda good also, that I don’t contribute to the long reservation/waiting list at restaurants, long queues at cinemas, jam-packed crowd at every love spots. Yeah. this year I’m staying home for a quiet Valentine’s Day. Then again, that’s also because tsewei is still in Ithaca, New York, United Land of People Who Voted Bush Back Into Administration
One good thing about her being there, is that how accessible it is for me to shop for something to be sent to her - online shopping is really a breeze over there. Alas, due to the incompetence of Pos Malaysia (having closed for business during the week-long Chinese New Year holidays), cards from tsewei still did not reach me… haih… Malaysia bukan tak boleh, tapi Malaysia mana boleh?!
Okay, rants about Pos Malaysia aside, I feel like blogging about how we all began…
I knew tsewei pretty much due to coincidence, where she has the same full name as my godsister. Can’t remember exactly when we knew each other, but last documented date points to October 8th, 2003. Since the day we knew each other onwards, we’ve gotten along quite well. She became a friend that I can comfortably talk to, one that I can really relate to. She studies in NTU, Singapore and even though sometimes I feel that I have quite a liking in her, the distance between us is almost always a major turn-off. She’s still to spend the next 5 years in Singapore, both studies and working commitment.
People who knows me well, would know that I’m never a fan of long distance relationships (LDR). However, when we both seriously developed feelings for each other back in October 2004, it became really awkward. We were both fond of each other, yet we aren’t fans of LDR. Feelings grow day by day, but we kept telling ourselves that we won’t be together, due to the distance (I know it’s just 4 hours by car, but still…
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Then came the holiday season, when she came back to town. I picked her up from the train station, filled up her stomach with good dim sum for breakfast, and sent her home. The next day, we met up at KLCC for a lunch date and a nice time around the city (well, sort of nice, except that KL Monorail really sucked and packed during peak hours in the evening). After the 2 days spent with her, I then realised…
Realised that I should just throw away all my reservations about LDR, my worries about it all, and just go with my feeling. Heck, when I’ve nothing, I’ve really nothing to lose, right?
So I told tsewei of my feeling, my intention, and asked for her opinion. After all, this is not just about holding a girl’s hand and being attached. There need to be a lot of commitment and effort on both ends to really make this LDR work. I told, I expressed, and I asked. Then waited. And waited. And waited summore…
Then she agreed, feeling the same that this is really too good to not let it a try. And that, boys and girls, are quite how we started (politically correct, but may not be chronologically accurate). And then everything else started falling into place. Which was good. Really good.
And then before long, holiday season comes to an end, and she had to leave, not for Singapore, but to New York, for her student exchange programme (why they didn’t get me a hawt caucasian babe in exchange for tsewei still got me stumped, I think they did, but tsewei switched her flight to Timbuktu or something
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Things then became more challenging for us, indeed, with the 13 hours time difference and all. But we’re still pulling it through, thankfully. Thanks to the easy availability of technology, we’re now more connected than ever. There’s always Skype for voice calls, MSN for chats and webcam, e-mails, and SMS. Phew!
Luckily I did get the webcam that was on offer for free with a year’s subscription to PC.com magazine. CheeV and I both jumped on it when we saw that promotion in Midvalley. Didn’t have a use for the webcam back then. The most also was to chat with ChrisHoo and the Hooligans
I’m glad, that tsewei and I are both well equipped to survive this LDR. I just hope that we can really stay together through this all, to be together, once again.
To tsewei (and tsewei only, kids, close your eyes, or surf on to www.michaelooi.net),
Happy Valentine’s Day, dear. This time next year, it will be better. I’ll promise you that. I love you. *muakz*